A Girl’s Guide to High Heels – Part 2: How to Buy High Heels

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For part two of the Girl’s Guide To High Heels series, today I want to focus on how to buy heels. In case you missed the last article in this series, check out How To Walk In High Heels.

Today’s article will focus on the process of buying a pair of heels – from trying them on in the store, to what to look for in terms of quality, and even which shoes work best for different body types.

Also, if you’ve ever wondered which shoes are worth spending more on and which kinds you should buy cheap, there’s a handy list of splurge-worthy and save-worthy high heel types to help you save money!

Hopefully, this article will help even seasoned high heel wearers learn a thing or two about shopping for every woman’s favorite accessory.

Tips On Shopping For High Heels

Almost as important as which high heels you buy is how you shop for them! Here are some tips to keep in mind when shopping for heels to make sure you end up with the perfect pair for you.

Have your feet measured so you know your exact size. Sometimes your feet can actually be two different sizes! To get your feet measured, just go to the shoe section of any good department store. Most of them should have tools to measure your foot and find your perfect size.

Realize that you may be different sizes in different brands. Depending on the cut of a shoe, you could be a 7.5 in one brand and an 8 in another. Similarly, know what size you are in European sizes, because many quality shoe brands use those. For a handy conversion chart, click here.

Try on shoes at the end of the day. Believe it or not, your feet can change sizes throughout the day, and they swell a little bit by the end of the day. Try shoes on after walking around and you’ll get a picture of your true size.

Walk around in the shoes before you buy them. Okay, a no brainer, but worth mentioning. You should do some laps around the shoe area in the shoes before you even think about buying! And remember to shop at stores that have good return policies – every shoe is going to be comfortable at first, but maybe not after an hour! Buy shoes somewhere with a decent return policy so you can wear them for a while and see they stay comfy before committing.

Quality High Heels: What To Look For

All heels are not created equal – in fact, there are huge differences in quality from one brand of shoe to the next. Learn how to spot high quality shoes and you can invest in heels that will last you forever!

Anatomy of a high heel

Shoes by Christian Louboutin, available at Saks Fifth Avenue

Note how the sole is attached to the shoe. If the sole is stitched on, make sure the stitches are even and look secure. If it’s glued on, check to make sure that there is no space around the edges where the sole could start to peel off. You want a sole that’s seamless and isn’t going anywhere.

Look for shoes with a layer of rubber on the heel – this will help prevent slippage and make it easier to walk in the shoes. Some heels don’t have rubber or any kind of grip, and these shoes will be difficult to walk in and possibly even dangerous!

Pay attention to the lining. In high-quality shoes, the insole lining is usually made of leather, not a synthetic material, and goes all the way around the inside of the shoe. If the shoe only has lining on the bottom but not the sides, it won’t be as comfortable. Similarly, natural materials like leather absorb moisture and allow your foot to breathe – synthetics like vinyl won’t absorb moisture and will be much less comfortable.

Material matters. Leather is the most popular material for high heels, but if you love animals and don’t want to contribute to cruelty, there are fabulous vegan options out there as well (try Natalie Portman’s shoe line or Stella McCartney!). Either way, make sure that you buy shoes that aren’t made out of synthetic fibers like nylon or plastic. These will be extremely uncomfortable after a few wears, and won’t last nearly as long as leather or good quality vegan shoes.

The Best Heels For Your Body

Let me just say that I don’t think you should have to dress to minimize any part of your body. This site isn’t a Trinny & Susannah book! That said, if you are self conscious about something, by all means dress to minimize it if it makes you feel better.

Here are some tips on which heels work the best with different body types.

If you have large ankles, don’t buy anything with an ankle strap as it will make your ankles look wider and draw attention. Go for a pump or slingback instead. This will draw attention away from your ankles and make your legs look longer.

If your legs are short, avoid t-strap shoes because they shorten your legs and can make your feet look wider than normal. Similarly, ankle strap shoes aren’t the most flattering. Go for open toed shoes or nude high heels – they make your legs look long and lean.

If you want your legs to look longer, pointy-toed shoes will give you the illusion of extra height. A warning, though: pointy-toed shoes may be uncomfortable if you have wide feet, so if that’s the case, save ’em for the special occasions only! No point in being miserable all night just to look good.

If you have wide feet, round-toed shoes have a cute vintage look, and can be the most comfortable option for those of us with wider feet. As a bonus, they can make your feet look smaller too.

It’s worth spending more on..

Classic pumps and basics. A great quality pair of basic black heels can be worn with anything and will last forever. Similarly, a pair of nude high heels will never steer you wrong. Both of these styles can be worn for years and will still be “in fashion.”

Shoes for work, interviews, and internships. When your professional reputation is at stake, you want to look your best. This means investing in quality shoes for work, or for when you go on interviews. For tips on what shoes to wear to work, see: what to wear to a job interview.

Don’t spend a lot on..

Espadrilles. There’s really no difference in quality between the brands when it comes to espadrilles – linen is linen, and rope is rope. Cheap ones are just as good as expensive Christian Louboutins in this case!

Trendy shoes. If they’re going to be out of style in two months, dropping more than $100 is a waste of your money. Also, if these are shoes you’re mostly going to be wearing to frat parties or get togethers where they’re likely to have beer spilled on them, definitely go for cheap shoes!

Your Thoughts?

Now that you’ve read my tips for high heel shopping, do you have any tips of your own to add? How do you tell a quality shoe from a cheap one? Do you believe in investing in quality high heels, or would you rather have lots of cheaper pairs? I want to hear what you all think, so leave a comment!

Also, be sure to check back for the next part in this series, where I’ll show you where to shop for the best heels.

38 thoughts on “A Girl’s Guide to High Heels – Part 2: How to Buy High Heels”

  1. note- i also have to keep myself warm because now itz winter…
    if possible, can you tell us how to dress up for exams in summer and winter? ;D i don’t know if others are interested in this topic, but this is one thing that i struggle the most :S

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  2. Wow, great post!

    I love that you’ve pointed out that QUALITY MATTERS. I just bought a pair of cheap not-so-great shoes. It’s been three weeks now and the sole is already starting to peel off a bit.

    Oh and also, a great tip for making some heels less painful is to put insoles in them (Dr. Scholls makes some inexpensive ones). In the summer I’ve actually seen girls walking on the sidewalk barefoot, heels in hand, because of uncomfortable shoes.

    I have weird feet so I must try on shoes before purchasing them. I can’t understand how people buy shoes online… I try on the same shoe in two or three sizes before making the purchase!

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  3. Oh and i definitely agree with spending a bit more on boots. I’ve got these boots, which i payed for $125, and since i got wide feet, they are the most comfy boots i’ve ever worn.

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  4. Hightheels make me crazy!!!! I live in Germany and buy my shoes in Spain or italia. German Highheels hurt my feet, I think latin women do wear more highheels than germans, it´s maybe the reason why the shoes are better there!

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  5. It might sound really strange but sometimes I wear new shoes around the house before I wear them out, just to break them in a little. It makes them comfier when you wear them outside for the first time.

    Also, platformed shoes are good if you want higher heels but less pain. If you’re like me and need a little more height, haha.

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  6. not related:
    HEY ! love this post! but i have a request..don’t know if I can ask for eet, but exams are coming up, and i really don’t know what to wear =S I never want to spend my time to dress up on exam days but at the same time i don’t want to look too ugly! any suggestions? or can you post a post on this topic? All my friends are struggling with the same thing too! thanks so much

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  7. The best shoes are made in Italy, they are cut the best so as not to hurt, cut, or pinch your feet anywhere! Also, leather from italy is the best quality, they are more expensive but they are worth it because they won’t kill your feet!

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  8. omg michelle! I HAVE THE SAME PROB!
    in fact i’ve asked brianna abt this alredi ;p hopefully we get to see the post soon (:

    and i really want a pair of high heels now! do H&M or ZARA have good ones?

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  9. Hey,

    Go for shoes made in Brazil. Well, it might be partial of me, as I am a Brazilian, but we are one of the biggest exporters of leather/meat in the world. So they tend to be better in quality than the Chinese shoes and lower in price than Italian ones. When I moved to the U.S. ( I got married to an American), I was perplexed by the shoes’ quality/price here. To much people buying to much crap for too many of their hard earned dollars!. But I digress, if you don’t know where to buy Brazilian shoes, Nine West makes a great deal of their shoes in my homeland, and there is this brand called Schutz that has amazing ones ( you can find them on clearance at 6pm.com). Those are some of the brands I remember now. If you want I can try and find more.

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  10. I love to wear high heels, but I have small feet (size 4) and it is hard to find cute, heels that fit right and don’t look like they were made for little kids. It’s great having small feet sometimes so I can get the cheaper prices, but when I’m looking for dress shoes or heels, it is almost impossible to find grown up looking styles that fit correctly. Are there any stores, designers, or web sites geared toward people with small feet?

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  11. You can find lots of really nice branded heels for around 20$ on EBay and other sites. You better know your shoe size pretty well though.

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  12. hello I wonder if the arch (or inner arch) must touch the insole lining or if it is normal not to touch and see the open space between the foot and shoe. thank you

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