We’ve decided to bring back “reading for fun” with our new series Reading Assignment. Every two weeks, we’ll be reviewing one of our favorite books in the hope that you, dear CF reader, will consider reading it, too. Then, in the comments, we hope to get a great discussion going. Yep, consider this our version of a book club!
Marie Claire: Dress Skinny book cover via Amazon.
I was recently perusing the tables of new books at Barnes & Noble when I spotted a style book from Marie Claire called Dress Skinny: Perfecting Your Style, Flattering Your Body, And Looking Fabulous. My interest wasn’t initially sparked just because it was about fashion (one of my favorite genres!), but because I was a bit shocked by the title, and it seems like I wasn’t the only one.
While some media outlets were taken aback by the book’s title, others were downright offended that Marie Claire would promote skinny as if it were the sovereign ideal. Check out the backlash from Hello Gigglesthat was quick to call out Marie Claire’s perceived unacceptable decisions as “not OK.” Jezebel was even more brashly on the defense for women.
Even though the title is questionable, it’s worth noting that neither of those writers had read the book, and instead just based their opinion on the cover and a brief press release. I did end up purchasing Dress Skinny and am here to tell you it’s worth reading beyond the front cover.
Believe it or not, this book is not about being or aspiring to be “skinny.” Read on to learn more about what was behind that much-hated front cover:
Table of Contents
About the Book
Photo Courtesy of Marie Claire
As just stated, the book has nothing to do with being “skinny.” Instead, each chapter focuses on a specific feature that a woman may either want to play up or play down, such as boobs, the derrière, the tum-tum, and, as shown above, legs.
Dress Skinny discusses how to flatter these areas, and there is an interview at the end of each chapter from a celebrity who has struggled with that part of their body. For example, in the chapter on cha-chas (or ta-tas, your choice), Katy Perry explains that “[my body] isn’t a Kate Moss body, but I am happy with it.” She also shares how she was overwhelmed by her large breasts to the point where she wore minimizers and was bullied about them. As a teenager, she was 5’7″ and 145 pounds, but “her wish was to be waifish.”
Other celebrity interviews include Jennifer Hudson discussing arms and Nicki Minaj on… what else? Her hips that “don’t lie.” Each chapter also includes an interview with a famed designer, like Carolina Herrera, Michael Kors, and Diane von Furstenberg. (Speaking of DVF, who else is excited about her new reality show on E!… anyone?)
This book is more than just informative on the subject of dressing, it’s full of fun, fashion-related information. I learned that the French like to call large-breasted women “Il y’a monde au balcon.” What does that mean?! Well, it directly translates to “There’s a crowd on the balcony.” Now, there’s a new way of saying it!
Many of the fun facts are fashion history related, and since I’m a history buff and slave to fashion, this was my favorite part of the book. Do you know who was the first person to dare to bare their arms in the USA? (She also happened to be a president’s much, much younger wife.) I do! And you will too, once you read Dress Skinny. Seriously though, you’ll learn so many facts worth knowing, and not just ones to use as conversation starters at parties.
On a similar note, I loved seeing all of the old photos throughout the book that feature stylish women throughout the years. Seeing Marilyn Monroe stretching in adorable gym clothes was a whole new reason step up my exercise wardrobe game! Besides the older pics, Dress Skinny also incorporates a lot of modern street style.
Each chapter suggests trends that are best for those aforementioned “problem areas,” and those pieces are shown on celebrities, as well as “real” women. This shows how everyday dressing is truly not only respected, but revered. Fashion is art, but there is such a mastery in the everyday wear and styling by all of us, which brings me to my overall thoughts on the book:
Final Thoughts
Photo Courtesy of Marie Claire
I’ll say it again: the book was not about dressing to look “skinny” or be skinny (spoiler alert: the word “diet” never appears in the text). Also, it did not endorse any one look or body type as being superior to another. We here at CF are all about embracing all body types and promoting body positivity, so we appreciate that the book was inclusive to many shapes and sizes.
Dress Skinny paid homage to every woman and her body and, wanting to help maintain a healthy and happy contentment with how one looks, acknowledged that we all have certain discontents. Teaching us how to best flatter our body helps us love ourselves as we are and look our best (confidence alert!).
Ironically though, this book was judged solely on its cover, which reminded me just how much of an impact first impressions (ahem, our looks) can make. We are all, at birth, going to be destined to have a certain look, and in life, we are all our own PR managers when it comes to our image. We decide how to depict ourselves according to our wishes; it is our free right. With books like these, we are able to work with what we have and be who we are.
My only complaint about this book is that what was between the back cover and that controversial front cover could have been longer (hey, I’m just craving more), but I did love it. Whenever we “look inside,” we do seem to find appreciation and, no, it may not be in accordance with those first impressions. That is why Dress Skinny serves as one of the most apropos examples of warning against judging a book by its cover.
Let’s Get the Discussion Going:
Are you going to read Dress Skinny? Did this review help you make that decision? Do you think this book should have a different title? Have you read any other books from Marie Claire? If so, which ones? What other books would you like to see featured in this column? Drop a comment below and tell me what you think!
Couldn’t remember the name of this book but I was hooked from the review (really like this new column. Thanks CF!) and came back to check. And I wanted to make a list from her other reviews for a good reading list over Thanksgiving break. Wanted to check the comments because I saw a bunch posted. Can’t believe they would changed a word because some girls with nothing better to do have made it a job to be offended. I remember it saying weighed in and that is just a phrase. I don’t think it was meant to be rude or really saying anything about Jennifer Hudson. If it was an attempt at a pun then it was funny because she did weight watchers. Everyone applauds her for it and how good she looks now.. So Simmer down people. The writer is from the same place as her (or atleast goes to school where J. HUD is from) and they all probably love her there.. For acting as a critic she always seems open minded and makes the books seem worth a read. You are literally CRITIQING her critique. Maybe instead you should try to put your time into writing and not into attacking those that do.
The comment about Jennifer Hudson “weighing in” was tasteless, frankly.
While I think that this book does sound pretty awesome, I really think the whole cover situation is a bit unnecessary. They are still portraying a very ideal/perfect looking model and the word skinny is in bold, so they really aren’t trying to move away from that message even if the actual contents of the book may seem to promote body positivity…
Interesting article but it still bothers me that there is a book out there with celebritites (Katy Perry example) which state that Kate Moss is the better body to have..
Hi Ladies – In regards to the Jennifer Hudson comment, you’re absolutely right; it was a poor choice of words. I went ahead and changed it.
lol I love when CF commenters call it out like they see it. Definitely agreed with Shay and Kellyn here.
I agree with Kellyn. The comment you made about Jennifer Hudson combined with the excerpts from the book about how “as long as the shape is slimming” and the book title makes this review just look like a sugarcoated attempt at being politically correct.
I have to say, while I think the title could have been better chosen, it does the job of drawing attention, and from a marketing standpoint works. I think the book still sounds interesting, even if it’s just for the fashion history parts. I haven’t read the book (though I intend to after reading the CF review), but it sounds helpful to me. I really enjoy fashion, and I use it as a tool to express my creativity and build confidence, so getting more ideas about how to play up the parts of myself I like best and down play the parts of myself that aren’t my favorites would be nice. Yes, I think there should be a cultural emphasis on being healthy, not necessarily skinny, but it sounds to me like what this book does is help women of all shapes control how their bodies will be perceived.